Rejection -- it is an inevitable part of dating, right? So i had been dating a guy who i thought was nice but didn't think it was going to work out. No particular reason but it just didn't seem right. However, being a dating veteran, and open minded, i figured that i would play this out. He cancelled our date on monday. When i asked him why, he wrote back stating that i needed to figure out what i am doing with the other guy. Here's the messed up part, I AM NOT DATING ANYONE ELSE --- not even being chatted up by anyone. So now he doesn't answer me and I feel rejected. How is it possible to suffer rejection at the hands of a guy who you were sticking around to give it the benefit of the doubt. Does that make me crazy? Or is just that i secretly (or not so secretly now) want every guy i date to be eating out of my hands........So how do you deal with it differently so you dont get all the crappy feelings of rejection.
So my response, is to go on line and rant about it. i also emailed a couple new guys ---i dont feel better
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