Getting back on the proverbial horse

I am sick of starting over again and again.  So after I got dumped by Mr. JustOK, I realize that now i have to start over.  UGHHHH!  I just want to be done with this....... I find myself wishing i was one of those people that seem to have endless options for dating.  I am not looking for too much.  I want someone who is smart and funny, the kind of person that would take his parents in when they are old, some who wants children or more children, someone calming, someone strong both emotionally and physically, must like dogs, like to get out and about as much as relax at home, someone who is career oriented but not a work-a-holic, must smile with his eyes, must also have a nice smile, everything else is workable......is that too much --- in order to get that, what must i look like? be like?   So frustrating.